BrownSuga's sweet spot: The Night My Vibrator Went Out

***WARNING!!! Yes this is about sex so either stop reading or get over it***

Last evening for some odd reason I thought back to a very interesting night of my adult married life. At the beginning of my marriage my husband and I didn’t live together for a short period of time and during that time I did reacquaint myself with my trusty friend, Bully (not that I ever lost touch with him).

Either way, I won’t bore you with the details but after realizing that it wasn’t just dead batteries but a broken toy I had to find something to distract me.

So I headed to my trusty computer.

NO NO NO I did NOT go look for porn. I am really not the porn type of person. If that’s your thing then great but not what do to distract or please myself.

I did my favorite hobby, I found people to talk to. I didn’t just hop into a random chat room. Hey, I watch To Catch a Predator with Chris Hansen. There are some sickos trying to pick up young women/girls out there. (I’ll blog about this later…boy do I love watching that show)

I first started looking for stories. This was a time when writing was becoming an interest of mine. And reading amateur stories was a bit more interesting to me that NY Times best sellers. But I found some really great stories and in turn I found even better people.

The site I ended up finding is a place for writers to submit stories and then a chat room for them to talk to each other about anything and everything. Although you don’t have to be a writer in order to log into the chat, that was the order in which I found it. Anyway I won’t actually name the site only because they aren’t paying me for endorsing it so they will stay unnamed.

Either way it’s been a while since I first found the chat room or almost just as long since I’ve spent any real time on the site, I did meet some really wonderful people. Of course there are many people who believe you can’t really forge any type of relationship both romantic and platonic online but I find that not to be true. I’m not sure what it’s like to find a romantic interest online because I found mine at a bowling alley J but friendships can be forged.

The point of my blog tonight was not to tell the details of my sex life or my chat experiences but to say that even when something unexpected happens there’s usually something good that comes out of it but you just have to look for it.

So if my vibrator ever goes out again or if my laptop crashes or whatever may happen I’ll be sure to keep my eyes open for the rainbow that follows the storm (and trust me a woman who wants sex and can’t get it is as bad as the worst storm ;-) ).